Hi Paul, you came to my middle school today for a few assemblies. I feel like you put everything that I have ever wanted to say to the world in your speech. I will always remember you and hope you come back to my school someday.
You are an inspiration to me and all of my friends, and I will remember every word you said. I am very proud of you and always will be, and I hope nobody or anything makes you think differently. Thank you!
Leanne, 6th grader
Dear Paul,
I was truly inspired by your presentation at my school. My name is Jennifer and I am 11 years old. I was sitting with my friend expecting something sad. It turned out that your words were so positive and very inspiring. Your stories made me laugh and and cry and truly made my heart sing! I am amazed at even though you have a disibility, you are able to do so many things and do them better than anyone else.
Your paintings are exquisite. I could even get Picasso to have a painting contest with you and you would win by a million! Ever since I saw your presentation, it has given me a new way of looking at things. When I saw a smile I, in a way, I saw that smile turning into a frown. But you made me realize that when someone is smiling it means they are thinking positive.
In a way, I am jealous of you because you met two of my favorite singers, Billy Joel and Elton John. They really are my idols. I play piano and sing. I love music and it is my life. I could not live without it. When I am down and feeling sad, I just sing. People get annoyed because I do it so much but it really makes me happy. One day I will be on Broadway and be in the best shows and have the best parts, hopefully. I stand in front of my mirror listening to Judy Garland and just sing and dance my heart out. I don't know how to dance but I try. When I sing, I just think of nothing else. Everything around me is just a blur. The only thing in my mind is HIT THAT NOTE.
Your presentation has given a new meaning to the phrase, "don't give up."
Jennifer, 6th grader
Hello, Paul! I was in the front row during your presentation today at the middle school. You gave me soooooo much inspiration that, even though you have a disability, you have become my true role model. You taught me that I should be thankful for what I can do! I was also very touched by your speech.
There was this boy in the back row making fun of you. Well, after the assembly was over, i went to my principal and told him about that rude boy who was making comments. After school, I went to him and said you know what that man out there learned so much even though he has cerebral palsy, he learned how to walk, talk and even has a great job, and you couldn't do that for your life.
Mina, 8th grader
Hi, Paul! I go to Palmyra-Macedon High School and you came and talked to us today! In the past, when we have had motivational speakers come all the time in middle school, people always have said that the programs were so stupid and boring. Not this time! You were awesome and everybody loved you!
I just wanted to say thank you. You are such a great person, I know you said you loved to make people smile and be happy, it was hard not to when you were there. I really enjoyed listening to your stories. You live like you don't even have cerebral palsy -- you are an artist, sky diver, scuba diver, athlete, and all the other things. Even for a person without cerebral palsy, all those things are awesome, but with the disability, it's truly amazing!
I love how you just believe you can do something and do it. Thanks again Paul, you really have made me more confident in myself.
Heather, 9th grader
Hello, Paul!
I don't know if you remember me, you walked into my Freshman Health Class at Allentown, I was the girl who kept her head down. I remember knowing what you were going to talk about, I remember knowing exactly how you feel. I remember how great it felt, when a boy who used to be one of my closest friends when my cerebral palsy was at the worst, talking to you. Even though he's one of the biggest class clowns. I knew he knew what you meant, and I knew he still cared.
I remember glancing at you afraid, so afraid because I wanted to tell you, but I didn't know how. So then I came up to you at the end of class and then I told you, "Paul, I also have cerebral palsy." And then you smiled and said, "But it doesn't need to have you." Those words will be in my memory forever because I never thought of it that way. I remember how surprised I was to see you at Cook College during our Agricultural State Convention. I remember how nice it was to actually see you again. I remember seeing you at the basketball game at the Elementary School, where my brother was playing. I wasn't sure if it was you, but then I realized it was when I saw the bright shirt.
I'm doing a report on Heroes for my Sophomore English class. I went to your web site because you are one of my heroes. I want you to know that. Thank you for coming to my class. Thank you for coming to Allentown. Thank you for going down to the Elementary School and talking to them. You were in all my siblings classes, and some of my friends. Thank you for opening their eyes, and for opening mine. I wish you all the best, and hope you come back again, because there are new people and everyone needs to know what it's like.
Maybe someday I'll have the courage to speak as you do, and tell them about me.
Maybe someday.
Danielle, 9th grader
I wanted to thank you for taking the time this summer to motivate me and my friends in central Illinois. Since we both have cerebral palsy, you have changed my attitude and my heart so much for the better! Your presentation and discussion have positively changed me, with the emphasis that cerebral palsy is not a disease at all, but simply a disability. Over the years, I have tried to persuade my own family that the cerebral palsy that is a part of me is actually not a disease at all. My family had this misconception that was only reinforced by other people staring at me, thinking I have a disease, and generally they would make me feel different.
I want to show my friends, and especially my family, how much you have positively changed my life and my spirit by presenting a unique program by a fellow person with cerebral palsy! I hope that you will consider placing this testimonial on your web page so that people can see that I have communicated to you in a good enough way that you actually listened. That would help me because that will change my spirit and show that you care.
Thank you for coming down here from New Jersey to tell us about yourself and others with this challenge. You may not have changed others lives, but you have truly made an impact upon me so that I will not let others put me down about my cerebral palsy. I think that we have a bond and I believe that I may be the only person you changed this much -- not saying you didn't change others -- but you worked hard on me. Now I know that I can get my own apartment and become more independent in life!
You are my best friend Paul from Robby. You have put a big light in my heart to show me that my cerebral palsy is not going to get in my way for anything that comes my way! Thank you again!
Robby Stephens
Developmental Services Center
Champaign-Urbana, Illinois
Today, I learned a few things from Mr. Wichansky's visit that I would like to share. The first thing is that when you really want to do something, you have to try over and over until you reach your goals. Another thing is people with disabilities can have very special talents. The last thing is just because someone has cerebral palsy does not mean they are abnormal, it just means that there aren't exactly like you.
I hope that in the future Paul continues leading a happy life!
Emily, 3rd grader
You are a fabulous painter! I loved the painting you did of the Porsche, it was indeed beautiful. If I set my mind to it, I could possibly do a painting like that. It was splendid! I also hope you can visit our school again and give another fabulous speech, teaching more children about the wonderful gift of life and how much you should cherish what you have. I know you have definitely taught me about it. You are one in a million, Paul! You showed me the important things in life and how to make someone feel good about themselves.
Shannon, 7th grader